Separated to whole

FROM SEPARATED TO WHOLE

You have the spirit of a warrior.
Only the warrior is battle-weary and the battles have become futile.

 

Yes, you can feel whole again after a separation! 

I am here to gently remind you that you can be emotionally and energetically connected to yourself and your loved ones. A rupture with a partner when you’re on completely different and separate trajectories can become a catalyst to find unity within yourself.

Through the safety and magic of community, you will see that you can trust others and believe in yourself again. There is a new and different way of doing the things that were so difficult up until now. By taking simple steps you’ll move towards more freedom and balance in your life. You are not a victim.

It is time. Allow me to guide you across this mountain one step at a time.

I See You and I Bear Witness to What You’re Experiencing!

Separation from a loved one involves a split or rupture. Traumatic separation can cause parts of the whole to shatter into pieces, The result is that we feel utterly torn or broken. Divorce can amplify any shame, guilt or ‘not enough-ness’ parents have, if there are children involved.

But I am here to remind you that none of us are broken. We are simply at different stages of returning to wholeness. By understanding our true power as creators and co-creators of our reality, we are able to rebuild our ourselves stronger.

I am committed to enabling you come out of separation feeling centred and strong in yourself. You will no longer feel alone and you will have the support of a community. All of us in this workshop are going through similar experiences.

The questions I desire to navigate with you are: 

  • How can you use presence to leverage your potential?

  • How can you be in this presence to create your new reality?

Your journey begins within. By reframing your perception of events, you can make a huge impact on your surroundings. Even if it’s only subtle shifts to begin with this will affect the greater good of all. It’s your decision to enter the co-creative dance and determine your own fate, rather than be a victim to destiny. Owning your power allows you to be the change you want to see in the world and become a powerful role model for your children.

The Workshops Will Cover:

  • Interpersonal connection to create a safe and transformational space

  • Healing work, including womb activation, as well as hypnosis and shamanic journeying using sacred cacao as medicine

  • Power from within yourself and within the group

  • Energetic work to connect with loved ones separated by physical distance

  • Mentoring team who bring in elements like shadow work, communication, limiting belief shifts, embodiment practices, breath, art, music and dance.

  • Workshops can be purchased individually to stand on their own.

Next Online Workshop Series

Communicating with Clarity

(4 virtual workshops)

Price: €297
€33 optional donation for
women and children in crisis (HolyMamaLove fund)

Online Workshops Delivery

 

  • 4 online workshops over 4 weeks, each session lasts around 2 hours and is recorded
  • Whatsapp Group for pre-connection, between meeting shares and post-workshop integration

  • Additional Materials: Embodiment Practices, Meditations, Worksheets

  • A different Guest Mentor for each workshop in the series of 4 to support us on our journey

Online Retreats (Each retreat includes 4 workshops)

Retreat 1: The Shadow of Separation 

  • Through shadow and light-work we find the gold behind the shadow of separation and begin the forgiveness process.

Retreat 2: From Fear to Courage

  • How to strengthen our personal boundaries in order to move from strength and courage. We explore how to overcome victim consciousness and fear-based responses. We look at retrieving the fragmented parts of ourselves that have been misplaced at any time due to childhood issues, birth trauma or other ways we have given our energy away.

Retreat 3: Communicating with Clarity

  • How to speak clearly to partners and ex-partners so that they hear us. Enabling children to stand sovereign in their own power and navigate bullies and energetic sabotage. In this workshop series we study building bridges, non-violent communication and an insight into your personal Human Design, so that you can trust your inner authority.

Retreat 4: Embodiment

  • Healing and integration through dance medicine, breathwork, music and art therapy.

MY PRAYER

May you feel connected to yourself and others
May you feel resilient
May you have clear boundaries
May you regain hope and trust
May you rise stronger and wiser than before

May you feel whole again

I’ve supported thousands of individuals on my retreats, courses and workshops over the last fifteen years. I’m passionate about activating others to step into their most vibrant and fulfilling timeline.

I’m an international bestselling author and the award-winning business owner and founder of HolyMama. I’ve hosted over 150 international retreats, 64 of them for mothers and their children. I’ve also trained and certified retreat leaders from over 20 countries.

I know separation well as a divorced mother of three. I’ve been through years of court cases that were traumatic and nearly ruined me financially. Part of the process involved healing from psychological abuse, forgiveness, navigating systemic abuse in the family courts and being forced to separate from my own children.

I believe we have to find new ways of doing things and that real power comes from within and with each other. By healing personal and collective trauma, and unshackling from limiting beliefs we become more powerful and present. When we get into the body and connect with our inner wisdom and inner authority, it changes everything. This is us evolving as humanity and restoring balance on the planet.

You have the Spirit of the Warrior. The battles have been many.

It is done. Now is the time to go within to cultivate and refine your tools. To gather with others and reclaim your personal sovereignty.

You will emerge with clarity and renewed strength to face adversity with a fearless heart and clear boundaries.

I decided to take the step to join this online retreat as I knew there was a missing piece in my healing journey after a traumatic separation – sharing in a group of women who have gone through similar hardships. I’ve gone through years of healing work, therapy & trying to release the patterns and pain by myself, as I normally feel uncomfortable being vulnerable in groups, so I knew it wouldn’t be easy to share my experience, but I knew this might be the missing piece of the healing puzzle.

Claudia had set up a comfortable group space with flexibility for single mothers. The Whatsapp group wasn’t inundated with messages. Each meeting felt relaxed & welcoming, and yet profound. My children’s heads sometimes popped into the screen and nobody made me feel uncomfortable for not having things perfectly in order.

I loved seeing and hearing the strength, vulnerability and power of the other women as they were sharing their stories of pain and transformation and I felt safe to share my own.

The pacing was slow and steady but with such powerful tools that it was more than enough each week for me to digest. The forgiveness meditations made me angry at first; it all came to the surface. But eventually I felt peaceful; and the session with Monica unraveled some very deep inner shadows of mine that I had no idea were inside of me.

The shadow work revealed a “gift in the garbage” of my story of coming out of an abusive relationship and as we had the closing session I felt a powerful shift inside of me, from being angry and unable to move on, to having forgiven myself for the things I had allowed, and thanking my ex for what he helped me see about myself.

Thank you Claudia and Monica for a very powerful online retreat

Linda, Spain

Claudia has a flame within her that she uses to ignite and unify women, to open them up to their fullest potential. She strengthens and uplifts women to be the best they can be to the core of their being. 

Dawn, USA

When my husband walked out on me I hit the lowest, most traumatic and scariest point in my 40 plus years. I couldn’t function. I couldn’t eat. Couldn’t sleep. Couldn’t hear anything but my own self criticism and self hatred battering me. I couldn’t enjoy my baby and I felt guilty I could not be the mum I wanted to be, in the family unit I craved. I was in a state and had nowhere to go. My family had their own lives and were exhausted by my grief and their own.

I found HolyMama and I was held. I was fed and nourished by a community of women. And my son laughed, and played, and was free to be a child. And I was free to be however I felt. It was the beginning of my healing. I connected back with my spiritual side and I have leant on these resources moving forwards.

Claudia’s online retreats have also given me that connection, that feeling of someone else holding you, while you hold another; women holding each other up. Her meditations connect you to the energies in nature, widen your vision. That’s nourishing, empowering, healing. There is something very special about Claudia. She oozes gifts anyone would be blessed to receive.

Fiona, UK

I have never felt this kind of Divine Feminine energy and love before. I am so grateful for you. You make the world a better place.

Anna, Sweden